Have you ever wondered why jerk off instruction feels so exhilarating? Being told how to jack off can be extremely erotic. Giving up control and allowing another person to take control in a power exchange creates vulnerability, which in turn can prompt a natural fight or flight response within the brain. The same type of reaction happens when you get nervous about speaking in front of a large crowd to getting embarrassed about something.
When a sub feels vulnerable, the sympathetic nervous system causes a release of epinephrine (adrenaline) and endorphins to flow from the adrenal glands into the brain, causing a euphoric floating feeling. A blindfolded submissive slowly masturbates for his Master as instructed, and every so often He strikes him hard unexpectedly on the groin. As anticipation grows with each strike, epinephrine is released and flows throughout the body. The sub almost feels high, and can often take more intense pain than before. After a slow countdown and multiple strikes, Master gives his sub permission to climax, and the release is sweeter than ever before. JOI is awesome because it takes vulnerability and turns it into something extraordinary.
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