"The most voluptuous sensations are transmitted by the organs of hearing."
[Marquis de Sade, The 120 Days of Sodom, 1789]
I like be seduced both on an intellectual AND on a physical level.
Good Dirty Talk gets me high rapidly, it is the most arousing aspect in sex for me.
There seems to be a common misconception about what Dirty Talk really is (about) and why it should be such an important part of our virtual relationship. So here some guidelines and clarifications:
(1) NO. Dirty Talk does NOT mean I want to be humiliated, called a bitch, cumbucket or motherf*.
Dirty Talk is a mental and verbal dance, where partners meet on eye-level to create a sexual story.
It can easily be combined with role-play and should ONLY involve rude words if agreed upon beforehand.
(2) It is a game of verbal teasing, that involves graphic language and the creation of explicit images.
It commonly includes vivid erotic descriptions and sexual commands.
It needs imaginative people to heighten sexual excitement during dinner or on FlirtPhone

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It is ideal for long distance relationships

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(3) Ideally, you as the performer, never stop talking (well, or typing).
I want to know about YOUR dirty mind, I want to hear YOUR ideas and fantasies about us.
Don't wait for me to answer, run me over with your dirty thoughts and imagination.
"Would you like that? ... Oh I bet you do ..." Make it a monologue, lol.
(4) No physical action is required, but visual aids are a great asset

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I had a bunch of good Dirty Talk sessions without the performer getting up from his seat.
Ideally, I can listen to our private like a radio show and get the same excitement out of it as if watching it.
(5) Tell me what you want to do with me. Tell me what you want ME to do to you.
Tell me how it feels when you do this, I do that.
Tell me what you see, what you hear, what you taste, what you can smell. Let's involve all senses.
Tell me what you might reward me with, if I agree to this or that.
Tell me what I DON'T get from you or what I MIGHT get from you, create anticipation.
Tell me what your friends are gonna do to me ...
... so many things to talk about
Seems I have been very lucky that my first huge crush on here was a great Dirty Talker and AE native. He's dearly missed for over 4 months now

. Ever since he left, I feel I only had pillow talkers (and typers) ... and I am tired from explaining Dirty Talk over and over again. So I hope this can be a source of future inspiration.
Feel free to make amendments, if you think I missed something, comment below, give it a

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Yours,
Chris
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