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Female Performer Chat: Open chat etiquette REDUX

Created by: amanda_fucking_palmer

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Just found the original post in the thread that got shuffled into models forums for a while so altered copyright details.

01 -- No repetitive begging
02 -- Caps off please
03 -- No promoting of a different site
04 -- No promoting another model off the site
05 -- Only talk about another model if mentioned by performer 1st
06 -- The most important person in a room is the performer
07 -- No means NO - not Maybe
08 -- For the most part English is primary language used in rooms.
09 -- Speak to the performers how you like to be spoken to.
10 -- Show the models respect.
11 -- No fighting of you don't agree with someones views on stuff.
12 -- If you want to get off to a model - do it in PVT !
13 -- All of the above rules are for when a performer is in open AND private.
14 -- If you cant afford pvt - say so!!
15 -- Read the performer's bio.

� Suggs 2009

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Here we go again LOL

split these out of the pvt etiquette thread - thx LickaU for keeping a copy this is my original 10 points and 2 additionals 1 of which was by Saphira and the other I cant remember who added it.

1 -- No rep3tative begging :- This goes without saying, by all means ask a question ONCE and if performer declines dont just repeat the same thing over and over again.

2 -- Caps off please :- this is net chat equivalent of shouting at top of your voice and is not welcome

3 -- No promoting of a different site :- Do I need to even explain why this is so wrong?

4 -- No coming into a performers room to promote another performer off this site.

5 -- No discussing another performer UNLESS the model whose room you are in mentions them 1st.

6 -- The most important person in a room is the performer :- This one goes to all the ppl that come in and try to chat up any of the chatters.

7 -- When a performer says no to something it does not mean ask me again in 10 seconds and i will say yes

8 -- For the most part the performers speak / type in English to a varying degree.

9 -- A rule of thumb i follow is speak to the performers the exact same way that you would want any1 to speak to you - show the correct respect and manners and you will be fine.

10 -- All of the above rules are for when a performer is in open AND private :- Just because a customer has taken performer pvt does not give any1 carte blance to start being abusive, promoting another performer etc,

If every1 reads and tries to go by these simple 10 pointers the site will flow with a better movement than it has been recently where the idiots have seemongly ran amok.

*** If anyone else has any more guieslines for chat netiquette please dont hesitate to post ***

11 - show the models respect.
And if the model says no. "NO MEANS NO"

12 - No fighting with one another! I'm not talking about if some eejit comes in and starts insulting the model and all her fans spring to her defence; that's actually pretty sweet. I'm talking about picking fights with another member just for the sake of fighting - over football, politics, even the other person's username. DON'T DO IT. If a member says something you don't like, politely disagree with him and then ignore it. IGNORE it. Don't start a big macho testosterone-fuelled slanging match and keep whispering to the performer: "I'm sorry but HE started it". Be the bigger person and don't respond

� Suggs et al ... the elder's missives not books cooked up by some newbie hatchling

now ... yaz all knowz i dun adhere to some of this ... cos' i do lube a fecking have-to in any place and any time ... i blamez Kain 'fer that cos' he waz a mighty archangel of the throw down (and at six six and god knows how many fokin' stone he could afford to be) and he WAS my lover and friend for eons. meh� @ civilized foking fun ... lets bust down th' wallz!

.inevitability of tunes and vid.

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Created by: amanda_fucking_palmer

7/19/14 @ 6:41am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Here we go again LOL

split these out of the pvt etiquette thread - thx LickaU for keeping a copy this is my original 10 points and 2 additionals 1 of which was by Saphira and the other I cant remember who added it.

1 -- No rep3tative begging :- This goes without saying, by all means ask a question ONCE and if performer declines dont just repeat the same thing over and over again.

2 -- Caps off please :- this is net chat equivalent of shouting at top of your voice and is not welcome

3 -- No promoting of a different site :- Do I need to even explain why this is so wrong?

4 -- No coming into a performers room to promote another performer off this site.

5 -- No discussing another performer UNLESS the model whose room you are in mentions them 1st.

6 -- The most important person in a room is the performer :- This one goes to all the ppl that come in and try to chat up any of the chatters.

7 -- When a performer says no to something it does not mean ask me again in 10 seconds and i will say yes

8 -- For the most part the performers speak / type in English to a varying degree.

9 -- A rule of thumb i follow is speak to the performers the exact same way that you would want any1 to speak to you - show the correct respect and manners and you will be fine.

10 -- All of the above rules are for when a performer is in open AND private :- Just because a customer has taken performer pvt does not give any1 carte blance to start being abusive, promoting another performer etc,

If every1 reads and tries to go by these simple 10 pointers the site will flow with a better movement than it has been recently where the idiots have seemongly ran amok.

*** If anyone else has any more guieslines for chat netiquette please dont hesitate to post ***

11 - show the models respect.
And if the model says no. "NO MEANS NO"

12 - No fighting with one another! I'm not talking about if some eejit comes in and starts insulting the model and all her fans spring to her defence; that's actually pretty sweet. I'm talking about picking fights with another member just for the sake of fighting - over football, politics, even the other person's username. DON'T DO IT. If a member says something you don't like, politely disagree with him and then ignore it. IGNORE it. Don't start a big macho testosterone-fuelled slanging match and keep whispering to the performer: "I'm sorry but HE started it". Be the bigger person and don't respond

� Suggs et al ... the elder's missives not books cooked up by some newbie hatchling

here's a small consideration which i encountered after a day watching the most awful display of ... *shrug* i lack words to accurately describe the ... *shrug*

Not So Amazing

by Zedul, 1 week, 4 days ago
Literature / Prose / Non-Fiction / Editorial

If I had daughters (or even sons for that matter), I would remind them that being fascinated with someone at the moment is inevitable, but being LOYAL takes a little work and a lot of character. I recently read a heartbreaking article by a woman who was easily fascinated, and not very loyal at all. Now she spends her free time haunted by the memory of the dead friend that she used and then discarded.

Don't get on social media and bombard friends with: "You are so amazing!"

When you compliment someone, do it in private. Most often when you say it in public, you are showing off. Worse, when the person becomes inevitably not amazing and someone else becomes "amazing" because you have the attention span of a small rodent, and you leave them out to show off the new friend, feelings get hurt.

People love to pat each other on the back in social media because it brings a "reward", but it is much better to be supportive behind the scenes,

You know the old saying: "Your actions speak so loudly that I cannot hear your words."

...

the author of this bit of thought is a glamour photographer whose work can be found on deviant art ...

cuts to the quick though doesn't it ...

"Your actions speak so loudly that I cannot hear your words."

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Created by: amanda_fucking_palmer

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Here we go again LOL
split these out of the pvt etiquette thread - thx LickaU for keeping a copy this is my original 10 points and 2 additional 1 of which was by Saphira and the other I cant remember who added it.

1 -- No rep3tative begging :- This goes without saying, by all means ask a question ONCE and if performer declines dont just repeat the same thing over and over again.
2 -- Caps off please :- this is net chat equivalent of shouting at top of your voice and is not welcome
3 -- No promoting of a different site :- Do I need to even explain why this is so wrong?
4 -- No coming into a performers room to promote another performer off this site.
5 -- No discussing another performer UNLESS the model whose room you are in mentions them 1st.
6 -- The most important person in a room is the performer :- This one goes to all the ppl that come in and try to chat up any of the chatters.
7 -- When a performer says no to something it does not mean ask me again in 10 seconds and i will say yes
8 -- For the most part the performers speak / type in English to a varying degree.
9 -- A rule of thumb i follow is speak to the performers the exact same way that you would want any1 to speak to you - show the correct respect and manners and you will be fine.
10 -- All of the above rules are for when a performer is in open AND private :- Just because a customer has taken performer pvt does not give any1 carte blanc to start being abusive, promoting another performer etc,

If every1 reads and tries to go by these simple 10 pointers the site will flow with a better movement than it has been recently where the idiots have seemingly ran amok.
*** If anyone else has any more guidelines for chat netiquette please don't hesitate to post ***

11 - show the models respect.
And if the model says no. "NO MEANS NO"
12 - No fighting with one another! I'm not talking about if some eejit comes in and starts insulting the model and all her fans spring to her defense; that's actually pretty sweet. I'm talking about picking fights with another member just for the sake of fighting - over football, politics, even the other person's username. DON'T DO IT. If a member says something you don't like, politely disagree with him and then ignore it. IGNORE it. Don't start a big macho testosterone-fueled slanging match and keep whispering to the performer: "I'm sorry but HE started it". Be the bigger person and don't respond

� Suggs et al years ago

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Created by: amanda_fucking_palmer

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Bump with the concise list of guidelines

01 -- No repetitive begging
02 -- Caps off please
03 -- No promoting of a different site
04 -- No promoting another model off the site
05 -- Only talk about another model if mentioned by performer 1st
06 -- The most important person in a room is the performer
07 -- No means NO - not Maybe
08 -- For the most part English is primary language used in rooms.
09 -- Speak to the performers how you like to be spoken to.
10 -- Show the models respect.
11 -- No fighting of you dont agree with someones views on stuff.
12 -- If you want to get off to a model - do it in PVT !
13 -- All of the above rules are for when a performer is in open AND private.
14 -- If you cant afford pvt - say so!!

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Created by: ohiodude45210

6/5/15 @ 9:41pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Good timing Suggs,
Really, a bunch of new models asking for help. I cited your thread to a new model. It should be something new users are required to read. Pop quiz "Users should show _ _ _ _ _ _ _ to the models". Wrong answer "mythang". Right answer "RESPECT". Nod to the great Aretha Franklin.
But truly, it should run weekly on forums. A true Classic. Cheers to Suggs. :drinkup

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Also, while in the chat room, why do we members(premiums, VIPs or even fanclub fellas) waste energy advising or ticking off those who pester without tipping or act like an ass? A model is adult enough to make her own decisions. And it's her room, let her figure whether to take our help or sort it out herself. Yesterday, I was tempted to open my mouth(or rather type -p) when a guy went do this bb, do that bb, plz plz plz. He just wouldn't let go but she didn't react too. Finally, the light dawned on him :winkwink

, he got credits and tipped her more than once. I don't think that would have happened if the rest of us had acted as her bouncers :-p

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Created by: Lauren Weslow

8/3/15 @ 11:42pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Come into my room and type "Show asssss" and "Show boobsssss" is your QUICKEST way for me to ban your ass. Just sayin'.

i am agree, many people wants to see for free.
nice to know for me, i am just starting

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8/4/15 @ 12:34pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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1 -- No rep3tative begging :- This goes without saying, by all means ask a question ONCE and if performer declines don't just repeat the same thing over and over again.
2 -- Caps off please :- this is net chat equivalent of shouting at top of your voice and is not welcome
3 -- No promoting of a different site :- Do I need to even explain why this is so wrong?
4 -- No coming into a performers room to promote another performer off this site.
5 -- No discussing another performer UNLESS the model whose room you are in mentions them 1st.
6 -- The most important person in a room is the performer :- This one goes to all the ppl that come in and try to chat up any of the chatters.
7 -- When a performer says no to something it does not mean ask me again in 10 seconds and i will say yes
8 -- For the most part the performers speak / type in English to a varying degree.
9 -- A rule of thumb i follow is speak to the performers the exact same way that you would want any1 to speak to you - show the correct respect and manners and you will be fine.
10 -- All of the above rules are for when a performer is in open AND private :- Just because a customer has taken performer pvt does not give any1 carte blanc to start being abusive, promoting another performer etc,
11 - show the models respect.
And if the model says no. "NO MEANS NO"
12 - No fighting with one another! I'm not talking about if some eejit comes in and starts insulting the model and all her fans spring to her defense; that's actually pretty sweet. I'm talking about picking fights with another member just for the sake of fighting - over football, politics, even the other person's username. DON'T DO IT. If a member says something you don't like, politely disagree with him and then ignore it. IGNORE it. Don't start a big macho testosterone-fueled slanging match and keep whispering to the performer: "I'm sorry but HE started it". Be the bigger person and don't respond

� Suggs et al years ago

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True, picking fights with other members only brings down the horny vibes in the room :helpme

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Come into my room and type "Show asssss" and "Show boobsssss" is your QUICKEST way for me to ban your ass. Just sayin'.

Or if their English sucks it's OPEN ASSSS OPEN BOOOBSSS

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Bump with the concise list of guidelines

01 -- No repetitive begging
02 -- Caps off please
03 -- No promoting of a different site
04 -- No promoting another model off the site
05 -- Only talk about another model if mentioned by performer 1st
06 -- The most important person in a room is the performer
07 -- No means NO - not Maybe
08 -- For the most part English is primary language used in rooms.
09 -- Speak to the performers how you like to be spoken to.
10 -- Show the models respect.
11 -- No fighting of you don't agree with someones views on stuff.
12 -- If you want to get off to a model - do it in PVT !
13 -- All of the above rules are for when a performer is in open AND private.
14 -- If you cant afford pvt - say so!!

This is the concise list of guidelines that are update, Suggs, had posted recently. I would post it.

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01 -- No repetitive begging
02 -- Caps off please
03 -- No promoting of a different site
04 -- No promoting another model off the site
05 -- Only talk about another model if mentioned by performer 1st
06 -- The most important person in a room is the performer
07 -- No means NO - not Maybe
08 -- For the most part English is primary language used in rooms.
09 -- Speak to the performers how you like to be spoken to.
10 -- Show the models respect.
11 -- No fighting of you don't agree with someones views on stuff.
12 -- If you want to get off to a model - do it in PVT !
13 -- All of the above rules are for when a performer is in open AND private.
14 -- If you cant afford pvt - say so!!
15 -- Any tip that is NOT in bright pink is a false tip.

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Bump as it is somehow related to.the "Banned" thread

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I dont feel confortable with that window on the chat where u can see who�s into the room, at all! What I do is just hide it so i never know if im alone or not and i feel good like this heheheheh And try not taking an eye after long time without ppl talking cause is kinda depressing find out there are ppl watching u..alone and hoping someone says hi and have a nice conversation (I decided waiting ppl say hi 1st cause I desisted to be the first and none answer ever)

about the other points yours and from the members who exposed them , what can I say,,,,,I love all of them but is a dream a fantasy a perfect thing an uthopy! kisses to all nice ppl in general! We re not alone !

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