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Created by: amicu

8/1/13 @ 5:11pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Wondering.

Am I the only one who when they see this thread pop to the top of the Forum always reads it as REFLUX and Not REDUX? Just asking. :angel

::I know, I know, going back to my side of the fence before I get stomped::

Not at all. The regurgitation of rules bumped makes me wonder if REFLUX isn't soooo far off the mark

Would suggest that rule no. 11 get a slight makeover, an if rather than of. When it's next brought up again. No rush though, enjoy your dinner. Have an antacid.

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Created by: alberich

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Not at all. The regurgitation of rules bumped makes me wonder if REFLUX isn't soooo far off the mark

Would suggest that rule no. 11 get a slight makeover, an if rather than of. When it's next brought up again. No rush though, enjoy your dinner. Have an antacid.

Just for Ami: Rules refreshed
11 -- No fighting of you don't agree with someones views on stuff.
06 -- The most important person in a room is the performer
15 -- Read the performer's bio.
04 -- No promoting another model off the site
07 -- No means NO - not Maybe
02 -- cAPS OFF PLEASE
14 -- If you cant afford pvt - say so!!
08 -- For the most part English is primary language used in rooms.
05 -- Only talk about another model if mentioned by performer 1st
10 -- Show the models respect.
03 -- No promoting of a different site
13 -- All of the above rules are for when a performer is in open AND private.
01 -- No repetitive begging
09 -- Speak to the performers how you like to be spoken to.
12 -- If you want to get off to a model - do it in PVT !

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Created by: no.op.roo

8/21/13 @ 4:34pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Basic unofficial chat guidelines created by customers / models

01 -- No repetitive begging
02 -- Caps off please
03 -- No promoting of a different site
04 -- No promoting another model off the site
05 -- Only talk about another model if mentioned by performer 1st
06 -- The most important person in a room is the performer
07 -- No means NO - not Maybe
08 -- For the most part English is primary language used in rooms.
09 -- Speak to the performers how you like to be spoken to.
10 -- Show the models respect.
11 -- No fighting of you don't agree with someones views on stuff.
12 -- If you want to get off to a model - do it in PVT !
13 -- All of the above rules are for when a performer is in open AND private.
14 -- If you cant afford pvt - say so!!
15 -- Read the performer's bio.

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Created by: suggs

11/28/13 @ 9:51pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Blatant bump with edit as per Amicus observation
"Would suggest that rule no. 11 get a slight makeover, an if rather than of"

01 -- No repetitive begging
02 -- Caps off please
03 -- No promoting of a different site
04 -- No promoting another model off the site
05 -- Only talk about another model if mentioned by performer 1st
06 -- The most important person in a room is the performer
07 -- No means NO - not Maybe
08 -- For the most part English is primary language used in rooms.
09 -- Speak to the performers how you like to be spoken to.
10 -- Show the models respect.
11 -- No fighting if you don't agree with someones views on stuff.
12 -- If you want to get off to a model - do it in PVT !
13 -- All of the above rules are for when a performer is in open AND private.
14 -- If you cant afford pvt - say so!!
15 -- Read the performer's bio.

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Created by: Isabella Mendez

11/29/13 @ 3:49am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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So, these are just my personal rules. I try to be as friendly as possible with the models with the knowledge that these girls are doing a job first and foremost, and that having fun is one of the great benefits of it. These aren't numbered because I couldn't decide on an order. If I think of any more, I'll add them in another post.

Treat the model like a full person. Everybody asks her to show her ass or tits. If you do it, you're just like everybody else.

Try to compliment the model on something OTHER than her tits and ass...unless she's really trying to show you how nice her ass is. That's okay then.

Everybody likes a good joke. Don't take yourself too seriously.

DON'T SCREAM

Use /WHISPER to avoid conflicts and discuss personal arrangements before private. Do not use it to just talk to the model. It makes the room look dead.

Don't wank in open chat. Seriously. That's just lame.

Don't wank in open chat, then take the girl private for 30 seconds to finish off.

Don't take a girl private with 'scared money'. This site isn't worth going broke for.

Don't try to get the model to do something she doesn't want to do or is not physically able to do. You are not an 'anal trainer' or a 'squirt professional'. No means no.

A lot of models are willing to do special requests. If you set up an appointment with a model and ask for something specific, do your best not to flake, and if you do miss your appointment, write an apology ASAP.

If somebody flakes on a model, and you have enough money for a private show. Take the model, and see what the other guy is missing. She'll appreciate it, and you might discover a new fetish to enjoy! :D

A good private is always at least 20 minutes. It's long enough, usually, for the model to cum and for you to really enjoy the full range of what the model enjoys doing.

TALK TO THE MODEL WHEN YOU'RE IN PRIVATE. It's not that hard to wank and type. A little frustrating, yes, but not hard. The ladies love feedback and they want to make sure you're enjoying the show!

Don't start talking dirty in open chat unless you're ready to take the model private. (I call this the 'shooting blanks' rule.)

Say 'Thank you' after a private. Even though these girls do this for a job, they are sharing something very personal with you. A thank you always goes a long way.

members need to take the time and read some of these threads (like this one)

Thanks!!

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Created by: ophelias_rue

11/29/13 @ 5:03am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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members need to take the time and read some of these threads (like this one)
Thanks!!

Welcome to the 500 levels of the threads ... the "read count" lets you know how many have touched a thread ... the reply levels are generally an indicator of how much fun can be found when people comment .. though in the male threads that's usually just a sign of moodles self-promoting unless i'm in there bashing Ronnie *shrug*

. my type of fun in chat .

http://www.megalomaniac.com/~andrew/funny/bloodcyber.html

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thanks to Kiri for linking me to this ... i so badly needed to laugh Doll

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Created by: cueamyen

11/29/13 @ 7:37am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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members need to take the time and read some of these threads (like this one)

Thanks!!

i completely agree. I want to try and do what some people say in chat to a model in a bar, but i'm afraid i will get hurt :D

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Created by: ophelias_rue

11/29/13 @ 8:45am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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... I want to try and do what some people say in chat to a model in a bar, but i'm afraid i will get hurt :D

*adds another screen name to my "List of Those Seeking An Ear-bleeding Head Slap" *

. ready .

*blue ermin loop� where cute icons are no protection http://www.flirt4free.com/forums *

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11/29/13 @ 9:38am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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*adds another screen name to my "List of Those Seeking An Ear-bleeding Head Slap" *

. ready .

*blue ermin loop� where cute icons are no protection http://www.flirt4free.com/forums *

The list is looking a little like - The electoral register!!
Ronnie - it is rumoured "is on this list"
https://www.gov.uk/electoral-register
@ www.flirt4free.com/forums

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Created by: timbo-83

11/29/13 @ 5:16pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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The list is looking a little like - The electoral register!!
Ronnie - it is rumoured "is on this list"
https://www.gov.uk/electoral-register
@ www.flirt4free.com/forums

I know another two on this list *wink wink*

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... read in a chat-box in a favorite model's room ... "oh Ben's written the book on all of this" "Yes i have" (the liberty of paraphrase ... poetic license may be confirmed at The Concession Stand�)

what a group of twerps eh? now ... for you new-k1ds-on-da-block THIS was originally posted in 2009 by my beloved Suggs, but is a recollection from a far older thread that has since dropped below the basement level where my old friend Amicu and i keep things straight ... bah� and meh� and blee� and piddle on your pretense ... ego-starved kiddies in toyland ... hahahahaha i fart in your general direction. *note to the brain addled ... the Ben referred to is NOT the (YAY) one *

Basic unofficial chat guidelines created by customers / models

01 -- No repetitive begging
02 -- Caps off please
03 -- No promoting of a different site
04 -- No promoting another model off the site
05 -- Only talk about another model if mentioned by performer 1st
06 -- The most important person in a room is the performer
07 -- No means NO - not Maybe
08 -- For the most part English is primary language used in rooms.
09 -- Speak to the performers how you like to be spoken to.
10 -- Show the models respect.
11 -- No fighting of you don't agree with someones views on stuff.
12 -- If you want to get off to a model - do it in PVT !
13 -- All of the above rules are for when a performer is in open AND private.
14 -- If you cant afford pvt - say so!!
15 -- Read the performer's bio.

i'd throw a cartoon comic book character reference in here ... or some other twaddle to reference the other participant in that (sarcasm non-emoteicon) 'conversation' but fuggit ... i'm on a warpath and having fun!

. non comic book heros and heroines lah de dah .

*blue ermin loop� where WE remember ... http://www.flirt4free.com/forums *

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6/28/14 @ 12:01pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Created by: suggs

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Just found the original post in the thread that got shuffled into models forums for a while so altered copyright details.

01 -- No repetitive begging
02 -- Caps off please
03 -- No promoting of a different site
04 -- No promoting another model off the site
05 -- Only talk about another model if mentioned by performer 1st
06 -- The most important person in a room is the performer
07 -- No means NO - not Maybe
08 -- For the most part English is primary language used in rooms.
09 -- Speak to the performers how you like to be spoken to.
10 -- Show the models respect.
11 -- No fighting of you don't agree with someones views on stuff.
12 -- If you want to get off to a model - do it in PVT !
13 -- All of the above rules are for when a performer is in open AND private.
14 -- If you cant afford pvt - say so!!
15 -- Read the performer's bio.

� Suggs 2009

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Created by: amanda_fucking_palmer

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Created by: amanda_fucking_palmer

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I don't know if this is an etiquette, but don't be boring in open chat. Even if they bore you and pay them no mind, at least try to be entertaining in a polite way. And if they continue to pay you no notice and give others attention or even insult you, best not to insult back. Don't be rude or mean. Just leave the chat room and don't even say bye.

dude ... yer boring me ...
the list is complete as it is ... this is not some poll or contributory work in progress that you might feel free to add upon in comment ...

Just found the original post in the thread that got shuffled into models forums for a while so altered copyright details.

01 -- No repetitive begging
02 -- Caps off please
03 -- No promoting of a different site
04 -- No promoting another model off the site
05 -- Only talk about another model if mentioned by performer 1st
06 -- The most important person in a room is the performer
07 -- No means NO - not Maybe
08 -- For the most part English is primary language used in rooms.
09 -- Speak to the performers how you like to be spoken to.
10 -- Show the models respect.
11 -- No fighting of you don't agree with someones views on stuff.
12 -- If you want to get off to a model - do it in PVT !
13 -- All of the above rules are for when a performer is in open AND private.
14 -- If you cant afford pvt - say so!!
15 -- Read the performer's bio.

� Suggs 2009

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Created by: divenreng

7/7/14 @ 12:05pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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dude ... yer boring me ...
the list is complete as it is ... this is not some poll or contributory work in progress that you might feel free to add upon in comment ...

Just found the original post in the thread that got shuffled into models forums for a while so altered copyright details.

01 -- No repetitive begging
02 -- Caps off please
03 -- No promoting of a different site
04 -- No promoting another model off the site
05 -- Only talk about another model if mentioned by performer 1st
06 -- The most important person in a room is the performer
07 -- No means NO - not Maybe
08 -- For the most part English is primary language used in rooms.
09 -- Speak to the performers how you like to be spoken to.
10 -- Show the models respect.
11 -- No fighting of you don't agree with someones views on stuff.
12 -- If you want to get off to a model - do it in PVT !
13 -- All of the above rules are for when a performer is in open AND private.
14 -- If you cant afford pvt - say so!!
15 -- Read the performer's bio.

� Suggs 2009

You're boring me by talking to me.

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