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9/2/14 @ 12:45am
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Location: San Diego, CA, USA
Posts: 2
On a side note, seeing the Banned banner and the mention that it is most likely due to bad behavior is also very insulting to me, as I am very respectful to all performers on this site. Quote
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On a side note, seeing the Banned banner and the mention that it is most likely due to bad behavior is also very insulting to me, as I am very respectful to all performers on this site.
No reason to be insulted, likely a standard banner used in that situation.
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On a side note, seeing the Banned banner and the mention that it is most likely due to bad behavior is also very insulting to me, as I am very respectful to all performers on this site.
the never in open chat and banning someone is a bit odd, banning is usually reserved for uncontrollable members who are consistently causing problems in the room for no reason whatsoever. however i personally set a 5 minute standard for members coming to my room, i have had many tell me openly that they do stuff in my open room which much like yourself i find that to be disrespectful because thats not why i log on. so if youre in an open chat and you get ejected im sure many performers feel the same way and i can offer that as an explination, but with your situation this particular incident im sorry i have no clue.... Quote
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On a side note, seeing the Banned banner and the mention that it is most likely due to bad behavior is also very insulting to me, as I am very respectful to all performers on this site.
suspiciously avoid free chat?? i don't know many model who just hate being in paid chat.. i mean just saying Quote
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suspiciously avoid free chat?? i don't know many model who just hate being in paid chat.. i mean just saying
Gotta agree with Jason on this one. While I guess some models don't mind free chat to build up traffic, I am 100% sure that models would rather be paid for every minute they're on. Clearly the model you're interested in is sufficiently in demand that he can stay behind the curtain. After the ban clears, jump in for a minute and see if you like what you see.
And yes, the ban banner uses standard wording for everyone, so don't take it personally.
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Huh? I didn't see the OP say he did anything in the open room other than waiting to see if the model came back so he could feel him out. I think when he says "feel him out" he means making sure the model is comfortable with what the OP wants to see. How is that disrespectful?
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Huh? I didn't see the OP say he did anything in the open room other than waiting to see if the model came back so he could feel him out. I think when he says "feel him out" he means making sure the model is comfortable with what the OP wants to see. How is that disrespectful?
bad wording i suppose.... what i meant was like him i feel disrespected as well, when people come in my room and tell me theyre jerking off to me and have no intentions of going private, because thats not why i log on.... hope that clarified... sorry Quote
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9/2/14 @ 6:01pm
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Location: San Diego, CA, USA
Posts: 2
If I seem to be lurking in a room without chatting, it's probably because I took a phone call and forgot to exit the room lol So, my apologies for something like that
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I like most members know if we wanna play, we gotta pay.
Anywho cheers and may all the horny-ness here find relief
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3/18/17 @ 9:44pm
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Location: Michigan, US
Posts: 4
I've occasionally been in a model's room & stepped away for several minutes while taking care of other things & returned to see the that big red ban banner. Is not chatting that severe an offense?
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I've occasionally been in a model's room & stepped away for several minutes while taking care of other things & returned to see the that big red ban banner. Is not chatting that severe an offense?
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Not serious but some models will kick you out for parking and not chatting even though they are not chatting but just looking for tips.
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3/19/17 @ 1:01am
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Location: IN YOUR DREAMS
Posts: 1,863
I would suggest any performer who might be keen to give the BAN button a bash to think of other options first and perhaps have a talk to the site admin to see if any answer can be found first.
Just My
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3/19/17 @ 1:35am
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Location: Momentarely in this galaxy while the mother ship r
Posts: 1,234
Not serious but some models will kick you out for parking and not chatting even though they are not chatting but just looking for tips.
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cell phone or chatting to other people off camera???
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one parked in the room doing NOTHING any one is here for!!!
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and even allowed NOT TO CHAT if they don't feel like it and models do
whatever the hell they like as things are nowadays....
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Just my
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3/19/17 @ 1:45am
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Location: Momentarely in this galaxy while the mother ship r
Posts: 1,234
On a side note, seeing the Banned banner and the mention that it is most likely due to bad behavior is also very insulting to me, as I am very respectful to all performers on this site.
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I know several models that do that because they are in several other sites
making money too....
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they have several other sites where they are broadcasting at the same time..
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We member have very little or no rights anymore.
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and demand not just an apology from the model but for someone to look into that BIG PROBLEM
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close my account sending a long irate message to whomever is the head of VS/F4F.
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right they have as a consumers...
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Just my p1ssed off
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Regarding your reply to Twixel, it might be nice for members to have a way to block models from contacting them with unsolicited messages (as sometimes happens) and even block the models we (for whatever reason) don't want to see or have anything to do with so that we don't see their rooms on the main page...kind of like a reversed ban list. On the other hand, members seem to have greater longevity on the site than many models do, so...
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3/19/17 @ 9:52am
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Location: Momentarely in this galaxy while the mother ship r
Posts: 1,234
Regarding your reply to Twixel, it might be nice for members to have a way to block models from contacting them with unsolicited messages (as sometimes happens) and even block the models we (for whatever reason) don't want to see or have anything to do with so that we don't see their rooms on the main page...kind of like a reversed ban list. On the other hand, members seem to have greater longevity on the site than many models do, so...
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more lately ( only once in 2009 it happened to me and I was livid!!)...
It is a free for all and someone somehow should put a
little more order into the mayhem...
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with the models
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Studios MUST follow VS guidelines too!!
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"ban" from the lists of models the ones we think are bad apples...
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they see their models are not getting exposure or revenue...
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so it is up to US to set the standards WE see apropriate..
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I know we are going nowhere with all these but...
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Just
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4/1/17 @ 2:15am
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Location: United States
Posts: 571
once because I deserved it.
once because the model told me to log off and go to bed. When I didn't, he temporarily banned me.
and
once was a complete mistake followed up by an e-mail from the model about how sorry he was that he clicked my name by accident. Quote
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