Very good thread! Very intense and not fun to read. Wish I had seen this thread before I signed up with Flirt. It would have saved me a lot of heartache and thousands of dollars (spent outside). I could have spent those thousands of dollars here for pleasure and not for pain. I came through an affiliate website, still do, and it does not have the forum in it. Several months later I tried logging directly into F4F once out of curiosity and happened to find the forum.
The interruption by the Enlightened Socrates was interesting. Shines a light into how completely devoid of human emotions some people can be. While the "spenders" make so many excuses for the models (it is just a job to them, they are just creating a fantasy world for you, they come from impoverished countries, they are young and immature, they are just gay for pay, they are doing it without their family's knowledge, they have their own goals in life, they get used by the studio, they too get a-b-used by bad customers, they are not bad people but just trying to earn a living, etc. etc. etc.), the Enlightened Socrates would not make a single excuse for the "spender". He says you chose to do it and you take responsibility. Certainly an eye-opener.
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