1) LOUD pulsating music
2) Having a girlfriend, wife or mother come into the room and talk to you or kiss you off screen or is shown touching you.
3) Not being prepared for a private chat be it move to a layback position or have toy(s) ready that were discussed prior to starting private session.
Seems to be getting worse now that we are in the end of year contests.
These are very substantive concerns. There are some very quality and professional models on the site. Some are a joke. Some otherwise professional models work with studios which create burdensome restriction. Those are the ones I feel for the most. The independent ones suffer from having it "mostly figured out."
As far as some of the dynamics of Flirt, here's a complaint many customers have had: Model Education! These are the kinds of subjects which should be covered in a model education program but aren't ... because there is no Model Education Program! (believe me, we've asked!)
Here are some ideas which might help. Essentially, this the point where we customers have to start thinking for ourselves so that we don't waste our credits on promising models that don't live up to standards. Many of us have discussed a 2-step interview process:
1. Assessing the model themselves. Maybe you do a Group Show or a Tip them via the email system. Maybe you want to see their whole body, see if they have
tattoos or not. Do they have the body parts you like? See if they reply with coherent English or even coherent Spanish! Figure out if they're into your kink. I made the mistake once of promising to do a show with a couple only to find out that the guy did anal, but not the girl!! Can we say AWKWARD?
After all that, if you like them, GREAT! Onward to step 2.
2. Organizing the Show. Once you've made sure they're the kind of model you want, talk to them about what you're going to do during the private show. Maybe you want something specific. Maybe you have a few bullet points but just want them to "do their thing." You figure it out. Often models are willing to have these conversation via email or in a 10 cpm private.
In any case, however you do it, just rushing into a private show with no preparation because "they're so hot!" is a sure fire way to waste your credits.
Be willing to spend a few credits up front on a potential model to make sure they're right for you. Don't make any promises. Don't expect to do the show that day.
Now after you've established a rapport with the ones that you've done some successful shows with, then you know they're professionals who will do what you want. Then when you see them online, you can just take them private!
But the website is called Flirt4Free. That's not just a name ... it's really good advice!
I hope that helps.
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